Sooo my booski @ShantiKWright blogs some awesome stuff @ mystepshisjourney@weebly.com and today I caught up on them. She wrote one entitled Ima put it down you gone fall in love which is a song by Brandy and Chris Brown that talks of having sex with someone and falling in love ....ANYWHO...her blog was about not one falling in love after hot steamy sex but after having let ones guard down <---- catchy title right! She talked about how she has been good at guarding her heart questioning herself as to whether she guarded it so much so that she missed out on some good ones.
Well I decided to do my own version because I go through the same thing.....but in reverse <----> I let my guard down to quick and too easy I feel <------ guess that explains why I have been hurt so many times. Ima put it down you gone fall in love, yea that's what I thought...WRONG! Me putting my guard down didn't cause any of the randoms of my pass to fall in love CLEARLY because I'm extra single. I thought that me opening up would show them I wasn't hard or not interested, that I was down WELP let me be the first tah tell you for free..."putting in down in any shape, way or form, be it your guard or your cookies doesn't make em' fall in love".
I don't know much about guarding the heart so I won't speak on it as if I do but if you can comment and help a sista out that would be a bunch of awesome (fyi commenting anonymously is easy if you are insecure about your info...as if its not already readily available). What I do know is that the Good Book says in Proverbs 4:23 Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life. <----- underline that in your bibles church...underline that twice...and then highlight it...and book mark the page
Sooooo Candi doesn't have commintary she has question! You can post here or on FB if that's easier but I do want to and love hearing from any and all who take the time out to read my blog. ( Im getting all sentimintal about my readers I forgot I had question!)
1. How do you guard your heart? (biblical or personal experience and tips)
2. Is there a such thing as guarding your heart too much?
3. How do you know when to "put it down"?
I don't know much about guarding the heart so I won't speak on it as if I do but if you can comment and help a sista out that would be a bunch of awesome (fyi commenting anonymously is easy if you are insecure about your info...as if its not already readily available). What I do know is that the Good Book says in Proverbs 4:23 Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life. <----- underline that in your bibles church...underline that twice...and then highlight it...and book mark the page
Sooooo Candi doesn't have commintary she has question! You can post here or on FB if that's easier but I do want to and love hearing from any and all who take the time out to read my blog. ( Im getting all sentimintal about my readers I forgot I had question!)
1. How do you guard your heart? (biblical or personal experience and tips)
2. Is there a such thing as guarding your heart too much?
3. How do you know when to "put it down"?
Guarding you heart is very hard to do because u are human and I feel that the heart was made to love but making wise decision and using common sense is what you put in place in situation like this... but we as ppl disregard signs and warning for emotions... I really feel like we need to all just go back to basics.... and take baby step and everything we do be attentive and all things and pray for guidance and strength along the way
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