What's Your Flavor?

*singing* What's your flavor, tell me what's you flavor, whoooo (ya'll remember that song...maybe..maybe not...candied PINEAPPLES!!!)

Hot...maybe not topic

or a topic that'll getcha hot

not hot and bothered 

but maybe one of the two depending on you 

or maybe you won't be fazed ah-tall

let's unwrap this thang.......interracial dating ("courting" for those that wanna be fancy and innovative even tho' its THE SAME ugh <------that's a whole notha blog in and of itself!!!! ----> I just went off again, remember Sweeties i do that occasionally) but yea interracial dating...side switching...crossing the tracks...coloring outside the lines.

I don't know what goes on in vanilla and nougat households but most chocolate folk have this unspoken code of not bringing anyone home to mom and pops outside ur race our you gone get talked about and possibly admitted or checked out. Sometimes times its not even an unspoken matter...its un-thought of and then you have the households where its spoken of and  ill advised. 

Often times when paparazzi spot a chocolate brotha with a woman of another coating you hear "ooh uhnn uhnnnn" accompanied with teeth sucking and gum bumping [LOL, i ain't got no sense] and when a sista is spotted with some candy of another coating she is thought of as cray cray and the brothas try to holla anyway cuz they don't see competition. 

AND THEN you have those that bash my chocolate sistas and talk about they don't date black women because of there attitude and this and that BLAH. 

and THEN you have the sistsa thats fed up wit the thug...self made entrepreneur (with no education, no funds, no foundation)...the habitual cheater...or the dreamer who stays sleep. 

AND then you have those who claim to be color blind...well they need to go see an optometrist! 

Candi's ComMINTS

Mannnnnnnnn I could go all out on this topic cuz my son's father is apparently with "Alice in Wonderland" but thats a whoooool notha blog but SHE AINT GOT NOTHING ON ME HONEY, BAH-LEEH DAT! Let me stick and roll quickly b4 I get in my feelings and this blog goes in another direction.

To those that bash sistas, go ahead and get you spaghetti spine-d peppermint with no stripes, if that's what you like grrrrrrrreat but don't be talkn bad about my sistas. Its called backbone not attitude BOO, we ain't wit taking crap.  For those that claim color blind they really do need to get checked because you cant just not see color unless you got that Stevie I Wonder going on. I guess what they mean to say is they look at the character of the person rather then color and that's fine SAY THAT. And sistahs our counterparts are going out and dating ever-re-otha flavor in the rainbow so why must we limit ourselves? Why must anyone limit themselves? I have had Hershey milk chocolate, dark chocolate and honestly i been thinking bout trying out me some........NAH who am kidding. I'm not trying nothing intentionally but I am thinking more lately of not limiting myself and that's just Candi, I have a chococlate addiction!!! But you...you cross the tracks and tell me bout it!