Celibacy Is a Piece of Cake

Yea I said it!!!! Celibacy is easy. It's easy now...I sit and think of the effects sex outta marriage has had on my life and MAN if I could turn back the hands of time and listen. Well not listen because nobody told me not to have sex, I never had the birds and bee's talk with my folks. I just wish I knew what i know now.

Soul ties...heart ache...heart break...bitterness...jealousy...insecurities...pain...pregnancy scares...pregnancy...tears...more tears

Anywayyyyyyz so yea since I been tryng to strengthen my walk and be obedient as it pertains to my body it's been ok I guess...well it has. The more time I spend with God the easier it gets to keep the lid on the Candi jar, the easier it is to say no IM GOOD! Also being that I'm no Sister Mary Clarence I think back to the fact that each person I gave my body to is no longer around soooooo why would I wana keep giving it up, giving away a piece of me...tying my soul to so many <=== when I think about that it makes celibacy easy. 

Hanging around like minded people and having accountability partners makes it easier to clink it on down. If you always running wit Miss Hot Pants u may be a lil more apt to opening your candi jar, LOL! Celibacy is also easier when you are cognizant of your surroundings. You know where need and need to be. Lately i have dabbled back in the club scene and BAYYYBAY I be wanting touch everything with a healthy back that passes...I literally have to tell my flesh to keep her hands to herself! So yea I need to find other alternatives on the weekends. 

Anyone with a penis can gas  me up and dick me down pleasure me. Celibacy has become easier [now] because I want more than a one night stand, more than a "wyd" text late at night, more than meaning-less sex.  I want intimacy, a friend, someone that takes time and really gets to know who I am and not what I feel like. I rarely get the desire to have sex because when I keep my mind on God I don't think about what my body wants and when I do depending on where I am I find the nearest exit and I pray...without ceasing, LOL.

Was reading a blog that said the quickest way to get rid of a random who doesn't really care about who you are is to tell them you're celibate. The author, Miss Aleck, said its instant repellant. HA! 

So yea I'M CELIBATE and its a piece of cake

-Candi Renee