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Sunday, July 29, 2012

CHURCH peppermints (Amen!)

Now it’s a lot of bad bitches in the building (Ooh, Amen)
A couple real niggas in the building (Amen)
I’m finna kill niggas in the building (Amen)
I tell the waiter fifty bottles and she tell me say when
And I say church (Preach)
We make it light up like a church (Preach)
She wanna fuck and I say church (Preach)
Do Liv on Sunday like a church (Ahh, Preach)



Pull up in the Phantom watch them bitches catch the holy ghost



I’m screamin’ “Oh Lord”
That pussy good, that pussy good
I’m tryin to hold on
I wish I could, you think I should?

Candi's ComMINTS
I meeeeeeeeaaaannn really?! To make a long blog short the song is disrespectful to God, the church, and should be to all those who profess to be Christ followers (even tho some are bumping it thru there speakers) seeing as how it is a mockery of ever-re-thang we stand for and believe in BUT if ur a regular sweet reader you know my commints are neva really short! 

So yeeeeea the christian community (some of them) are in uproar about this blasphemous song. What makes it blasphemous????? -----> His disrespectful reference to the Holy Spirit, who is the spirit of God Himself and crying out to the Lord and inquiring of Him while he is referencing fornicating (smashing outside of marriage). Also the manner in which the terms church...PREACH...and Amen were used is unsettling because its pretty much mocking the dialect of the believer in terms of when we are in agreement. In the church when the pastor or speaker says something we agree on we say PREACH or AMEN.

So a North Philly pastor @JomoKJohnson and @MeekMill "got into it " on the radio. To me there was no back and forth because Meek wouldn't even let the man hardly get a word in, he came out the mouth side ways tryna check the pastors relevance...I guesss since Jomo isn't a TV evangelist he isn't relevant...NOT SO, God makes a man relevant and not men. Meek came out the gate saying the pastor wanted air time to get his name out and he shoulda just called him if he wanted money for his church... REALLY SON?! It wasn't about that it was about disrespecting the God that the Pastor serves...that I serve...Jomo took a stand for us all as believers I say and Meek Mill wasn't taken any seats. Then Meek went on smacking about how he does this and that and the preacher quoted a few scriptures but in the end the conversation was pointless because Meek didn't let the man speak, then he went to talking bout his family being Christians...uhhhhh...moving on along


Jomo took one for #TeamJesus he stood for what he believed in. The approach could have been better. Meek went off and said he didnt believe in God or what the pastor was talking about so I feel like quoting scripture wasn't the best way . You can deliver a message to the lost by other means because sometimes spiritual knowledge can not be recieved by the natural ear...AMEN (I had to do it!) I think this should have been done one on one because Meek prolly thought he was being attacked by it being public so he put his set up to defend himself <---- aint finna have ah no name pastor telling me im wrong and im this and im that...ya know...


Soooo Meek goes on 106 & Park to "apologize"in his own way I guess because it didn't sound like one to me. "If you feel disrespected, im sorry...maybe I can do a remix with a choir or sumthin." <-------WHAAAAAAAAAT! Then he said if his mom and grandma who are christians didnt say anything or see problem with it he doesn't care what others have so I meeaann say...*shrugs* WELP.


Rappers have been disrespecting God in there music so this is nothing new...just a lil more disrespectful the next. Kanye claims to have made Jesus walk so he not going to hell, Jayz aka J Hova seems to be a god and him and kanya on the throne..Rick Ross got something coming out entitled God forgives and I don't which ppl waiting to cop (prolly some Christians). 


For me personally listening to secular music is something I sometimes struggle with. Some stuff I can listen to and some stuff I don't because it can have the potential to hurt my walk...I mean it sure doesn't help my walk in anyway. For me when I listen to secular music sometimes I feel a sort of disconnect from God...He is holy and if i'm filling up on filth and listening to things that go against His word...I guess I can expect it....NEVERTHELESS we as Christians as a whole have to do better about guarding our ears and be cognizant of what we allow in our hearts. We should never condone nor endorse anything that disrespects our God and as we grow and seek God He can and will help us in the areas we lack if we want the help (some ppl comfy where they are..). We should pray for those who don't know better and seek God on how to approach those ppl if He instructs us to do so...if they take it AWESOME if they don't, you did ur part. 


And lastly to my fellow believers WE have got to do a better job a respecting God ourselves if we want the world to. WE mock God ourselves when we are deliberately disobedient, when we go where we KNOW we shouldn't, engage in behavior we KNOW we shouldn't...etc. Let's set an example and be the lights we were called to be! Love Ya'll


Romans 14:23
But if you have doubts about whether or not you should eat something, you are sinning if you go ahead and do it. For you are not following your convictions. If you do anything you believe is not right, you are sinning







Saturday, July 28, 2012

Hard Candi

Apparently I'm aggressive                                                                         
I'm snappy with people                                                                   
a "cold women"                                                                     
the female Major Payne  
Hard

I'm thinking I'm feisty
assertive, strong
direct
no one's door mat                                        

Call me a mason, architect, contractor
mortar in hand and brick in the barrel
Every time my heart was assaulted I laid a brick
Now I have this fortress surrounding my heart
Let me tell it I was keeping out Candi snatchers
Now I find myself trapped and alone, looking for an exit

Anger, bitterness, pain
fear of letting anyone in...don't want to get hurt again...
A sharp tongue and a few wounded soldiers
Running, ducking for cover
Hiding from him...them...whoeva
Enemy of the State
Anyone's an enemy in this state...even me
mortar in hand and brick in the barrel

Wanting to leave and be loved but afraid to
afraid to be hurt again
afraid to be taken advantage of
afraid to be used
afraid to be betrayed...again
mortar in hand and brick in the barrel

Its gona take a strong back and gentle hands
strong enough to penetrate these walls
gentle enough to nurse these wounds
still I sit
curls tight
lips glossed
and heels high
mortar in hand and brick in the barrel




Saturday, July 21, 2012

Prototype: Mr.Goodbar

*singing* I think that you're the one
               if not
               you are the prototype
              we'll tip toe to the sun
              and do things...I know you like

prototype (pro-to-type) n. an individual that exhibits the essential features [qualities] of a later type; model; exemplar

My prototype you are...
Whoever you are...
You are the very standard by which I measure
I close my eyes and imagine you but I can't make out your face
I just see your character
*closes eyes, peeking so I can type*
Good with your hands
you know exactly how to touch me
a simple embrace to show your
appreciation
love
or concern when you don't have the words
when you lift my chin and just smile
when you rest your hand on my knee *sigh*
when you interlock your fingers with mine I feel...some kinda way
Your strength
not just physical but mental
strong enough to admit you're wrong
strong enough to apologize
strong enough to work through our indifference's
Attentive to the little things
my favorite color...food...
you know my style
you can tell how I feel just by looking
Patient
even when we disagree and I become a diva
you don't blow up but you diffuse the situation
you don't run when it gets tough or shut down
Selfless
you don't hold out because you want to see what I can offer first
but you give
...emotionally
Fearless you are
unashamed of being a gentleman and holding a door
of praying with and for me
of trying new things
You are so much more
You are the prototype
Whoever you are....



Sunday, July 15, 2012

Eye Candy: Show Me!

A ninja don't need to tell me wat he THINK I wana to hear,
I don't wana hear Shhhhhh it is easy to just talk( HA!)

I wana get to know you girrrrrrl
Ima hit ya up
I wana chill wit'cha
U wifey material
U different
Im think'n

Get 2 know me then shoooooooot
don't talk abt call'n...call
chill? Starbucks? Riverwalk? Beach?
wifey? *looks at empty finger, rolls eyes*
and ur NOT heard all dat b4

Im jus say'n I been thru a lot in a little bit of time and have heard the same things ova and OVA 
SHUT UUUUUUPPPP <---------- That's what I be think'n
I'm tired of hearing every guy say he different because EVERY guy says THAT! Let me see that ur different, let me be the judge and jury on that one. Matta fact the next Sweet Treat that tell me he different will get treated...differently *hmph, twirls curls*


Be different by your action


I just feel like some of  these chocolate drops feel like they need to sell you a verbal dream by sweet talking you and causing your palate to moisten......and that's about it. Its getting to the point where I have a hard time believing anything that comes out of anyone's mouth and that could be dangerous because when my Mr.Goodbar comes along I don't want to mistake his genuineness for game....


Show me you want to get to know me by...getting to know me
Show me you want to spend time with me by...spending time with me
Show me you care by...caring
Show me you love me by...loving me

Shhhhhhh....just show me









Monday, July 9, 2012

MY Favorite Candy

I like my Candi
Chocolate
Chiseled 
and with Nuts (biological make up, of course)
Mr. Goodbar

What makes Mr. Goodbar so.....Good....God
Handcrafted, hand spun to near perfection
Created to be great and for a great purpose
Designed just fine...just for me

What makes Mr.Goodbar so....Sweet...unconditional agape...love
opening my doors
complimenting my new hair style
noticing....the little things
the unexpected gifts (flowers, my favorite candy,a simple card...etc)
his conversation...intellectually sensual, encouraging, inspiring

I have tasted other chocolate but none satisfied my palate 
Physically..maybe
Mentally...temporarily
Spiritually........................no and that's the missing link that only MY Mr. Goodbar can satisfy
So I wait with this annoying sometimes agonizing sweet tooth
I wait as God adds His secret ingredients 
I wait until that moment when I can unwrap and enjoy
My Mr.Goodbar
Good to the last drop




Monday, July 2, 2012

Starburst at the EBT (BET) Awards

Yesternight all eyes were on the red carpet as the Stars BURSTed onto the scene for the much anticipated and overly hyped BET Awards show.

The people of FB and Twitter were weighing in a comMINTing on ever-re-thing and ever-re-body (I being one of those people). Some were pleased and some...weren't so pleased ( hence the name EBT Awards came about)

*if you idolize stars to the point where you get offended when ppl talk about them...get ur life and get off this particular page because Candi is about to give it with NO sugar coat*

Candi's ComMINTS
Now I knew we were in a recession but I really thought things were looking up for America....APPARENTLY ever-re-one fired their stylist and decided to wear black with a few ppl wearing white. What was that all about???....Illuminati? Mourning? Unity? or just Lazy? Darn near everyone who performed had on black and when I see black I think death and immediately disengage. OH an employee say they was all wearing black because they were mourning Whitney's death...*sigh* I would like to see the memorandum for that. 

I hope they fired the camera man!!!!!!!!!!!!! The only people who got facetime was team Illuminati (by the way I don't listen to Jigga but he was SHARP YOU HERE ME!!!!) and the girlfriend of the outspoken one *Kanye shrug* ....And speaking of which KK looked a little out of place and the masses were going ALL the way in on her and how Ray J didn't give 2 shhhhhhh...its about her. Back to the camera man...so I mean did they pay to have the camera stay on them and zoom in on their faces and pimples or was it just their lucky evening? Should have been called the Jay Z and Beyonce Award Show 2012. And all ima say about Solange is....them Poetic Justice braids....

*yelling* SAMUEL JACKSON! I thought the opening with him and Spike Lee was cute...now for the rest of the show...it wasn't bad but it wasn't good either, it was just him simply hosting...I want to see Madea next year

Didn't see Drake maybe he was either deported for chin checking Breezy or there is a restraining order out OR MAYBE the CAMERA was too busy up Beyonce nostrils that I missed his presence. 

Has Kevin Hart aka Chocolate Drop always been that dark????

Now I forget how many awards Chris Breezy one but on behalf of my Sweet readers I would like to honor him with the Quickest performance Award. They hyped him up to Mt. Kilimanjaro then started a rumor that he was arrested for gun possession AND then gave that man a 30sec slot....I was ready to see him rip that stage to shreds but I blinked and missed it!!!

2Chains and them dreds Lawwwwwwwd Yesssssss
Joe in that suit Yessssssssssss 
Tyrese, GenuFINE and Tank *faints* 

DeAngelo looked like he got out yesterday right before the awards!!!!!!! He still sound alright tho but he coulda did P90X my mind is still stuck on that image...

Franky Beverly and Maze was worth my view! LOVED

Alright I'm back...The Whitney Tribute I won't say too much about because people act like they knew her personally and she gave them a dollar BUT I will say that Monica was AH-Mazing! And Whitney's mom held it together and her brother singing was a plus. Now i have got to talk about Moesha and them white pants, red shirt and brown jacket...WHO put that together? Moesha sounded good tho Ima give her that and she did a lil 2 step. Did I mention Monica was AH-Mazing...

Mindless Behavior....well let me first address the young man with the twist out and bad Lauren Hill joke....stay in school, say no to drugs, and do research on RnB (he didn't kno what Mike Epps was talking about). And they should not have one that award...the end.

Oh I almost forgot Nicki Minaj...<insert your on commint here>. 

What was your favorite or least favorite part of the show??? I feel like I'm forgetting somethings but then again the CAMERA was on Kanye, KK, Jay Z, Beyonce and Solange braids SOOOOO much that it really wasn't much to see...